You can classify a power differential by its “intent”
1.032 words Power needs consent. Fueled by intent. “What’s the point speaking my truth to power,” you may wonder, “if they have the power...
It’s not extortion if you’re already being extorted
865 words Let’s call it “contra-extortion” to avoid confusing it with the real thing. Appearances can be deceiving “Isn’t that...
This time you’ve gone too far! Introducing “contra-conflict”
1,556 words You can be against something so intensely that you end up being for it. What you passionately resist you passively reinforce....
We’re all equally in trouble. Because nobody is perfect.
1,474 words Making better choices is only half of it. The other half? Others making better choices with and toward you. Quick review...
You need others, except when you don’t
960 words One moment you want to be closer. Then you want to be alone. Something wrong? No, it’s all quite natural. Nature-based...
Your psychosocial needs govern you far more than laws
1,125 words Your need others to respect what you need. As you need to respect your own. Dealing honestly with both is often the elephant...
Who really knows what you really need? How can they know?
1,135 words Your needs receive attention on many levels. The more resolved your needs, the less suffering in these various levels. Your...
Dive deep into what you actually need, suffer less anguish
902 words Your needs point to an object. They point to some resource to relieve or resolve the need. Nature-based anakelogy, illustrates...
You feel it before you know it
1,139 words Your needs point to an object. They point to some resource to relieve or resolve the need. Nature-based anakelogy illustrates...
Your feelings linger, but why for so long? Here’s why.
1,578 words Your needs resolve instantly or they linger. Emotions convey this duration. Besides direction, focus and intensity level,...
